Here’s how: Exchange all the incompetent mothers for Jewish mothers. In reviewing Marjorie Ingall’s book Mamaleh Knows Best: What Jewish Mothers Do to Raise Successful, Creative, Empathetic, Independent Children, Jennifer Bleyer writes in The New York Times Book Review, August 28, 2016, page 8:
On the value of independence, she points out that the ancient practice of a bar mitzvah at age 13—whatever its glitzy evolution in the New World—is to publicly announce that a kid is not a “wee, unreliable, undependable, footloose-and-fancy-free child anymore. The family stands before the community saying, ‘Look! We have made an accountable human being!’” On the value of discipline, she explains that the Hebrew word for sin, chet, is an archery term that means “missing the mark,” and extrapolates that Jewish parenting has commonly been about warmly but firmly guiding children to gain the self-control, self-motivation and sense of responsibility they need to hit their marks, whatever they may be, and face the consequences when they don’t.
Apparently Jewish mothers also have the good sense to have few children. Loads of children would so stretch them they wouldn’t have enough time to be good Jewish mothers. We suggest that a better world starts with smaller families, one or at most two children, followed by mothering guided by the precepts of Jewish mothers.
For a brief biography of Marjorie Ingall, click here. For images of or relating to Marjorie Ingall, click here.
For a brief biography of Jennifer Bleyer, click here. For images of or relating to Jennifer Bleyer click here.
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